The practice of BDSM and bondage relies on different techniques that need to be differentiated and explained. Each of them has its own characteristics and way of working.
From a general perspective, bondage (which corresponds to the letter B in BDSM) implies a dominant-submissive dynamic. Bondage techniques allow for a transfer of power, leading to a deprivation of liberty and the creation of a state of vulnerability. This dominant-submissive relationship is exercised by restraining one's partner with ropes or other substances.
However, it is important to distinguish between bondage and shibari. Shibari , while imposing restraint through restraint like bondage, employs a different technique and aesthetic.
So what are the different bondage practices? How do you differentiate between bondage and shibari? And how do you successfully practice shibari kinbaku ?
The BDSM bondage
Bondage is a BDSM practice that involves creating feelings of restraint and vulnerability by tying up one's partner. There is a power dynamic between the keeper and the person being tied, which can generate genuine pleasure for those experiencing it. This exchange of power is the foundation of BDSM practice.
To exert restraint and achieve this exchange of power, bondage involves restraining one's partner with ties . These ties vary depending on the bondage technique employed. Several types of equipment can be used in bondage: handcuffs, adhesive tape, cellophane, or even scarves. The elements used will determine a form of restraint that can lead to fulfillment and pleasure through bondage techniques.
However, this practice requires precautions, and certain rules must be followed to avoid accidents. Furthermore, it would be dangerous to use shibari techniques with unsuitable equipment. Indeed, bondage and shibari differ in practice, and it is important to distinguish between them.
The BDSM bondage techniques and shibari
It's important to differentiate between bondage and shibari. The two practices don't share the same philosophy or techniques. Furthermore, it's dangerous to use shibari techniques without the proper equipment.
The first essential distinction lies in the very foundation of shibari. It is an ancient Japanese practice consisting of the art of tying knots with rope. Initially, there was no real connection to eroticism, and any support could be used, not necessarily human, such as a tree. In ancient Japan, shibari was notably used to restrain prisoners, thus coercing and torturing them. Later, the more erotic practice of kinbaku emerged.
The practice of knots and rope bondage developed its own techniques and aesthetic, thus creating the foundation of shibari kinbaku. The shibari bondage technique relies exclusively on the use of 8-meter-long jute ropes with a 6 mm diameter. Using any other type of rope could be dangerous!
These ropes will allow you to tie precise knots:
-Single column tie to attach a wrist, an ankle and the waist.
-Double column tie to attach two limbs together.
To begin practicing bondage and shibari techniques, you can learn at the School of Ropes. Various workshops are offered to introduce kinbaku and BDSM practices to all levels. Finally, online tutorials are available on the School of Ropes to ensure you can practice bondage techniques.
