A beginner's pack to get started with Shibari
The Shibari Starter Pack:
This beginner's pack allows you to easily and quickly learn the first Shibari techniques. It includes
the two basic knots (single and double column ties) and a quick futomomo hold. These bondage fundamentals will allow for safe practice for the person being tied. As a beginner in bondage, it's important not to neglect this initial training.
The tutorial videos in the beginner's pack
Key points to remember for a beginner in the practice of bondage
The B in BDSM
The B in BDSM stands for "bondage." Being tied up or tying someone up can be a great source of pleasure. However, before engaging in this activity, it's important for a beginner in bondage to respect certain rules . The first is to use ropes specifically designed for shibari and to avoid using scarves, elastic bands, or handcuffs.
How to talk about one's desire to practice BDSM?
BDSM is most often practiced by two people within a couple. However, practicing restraint techniques like bondage can be difficult for some. It is essential that both partners are on the same page for a fulfilling experience .
It can therefore be difficult to bring up this desire with your partner. You have to approach it gently and, above all, be patient, allowing your partner time to reflect and make their own decision.
Beware of preconceived ideas about bondage
The practice of bondage is not simply a succession of suffering and violence, as a beginner might think. Bondage can have many facets, ranging from romantic and gentle to more sexual.
Why practice bondage as a beginner?
There are several reasons to start bondage:
-There can be pleasure in the sensation of constraint thanks to the ropes.
-The very aesthetics of bondage with its style and forms.
-The feeling of vulnerability.
-The exchange of power between the keeper and the one being tied.
Every beginner in bondage will find pleasure and motivation to explore their desires and limits.
The importance of consent in BDSM practice
All BDSM practices are based on the essential concept of consent. The practice must take place within a specific framework determined beforehand by the partners, whether they are beginners or not. Each person thus establishes the limits of their consent that must not be crossed. It is essential to discuss and define the mood of the BDSM session.
Communication at the heart of BDSM practice
To ensure a successful BDSM session for beginners, such as bondage, communication is central to the practice . Good communication establishes a framework that helps prevent accidents and both physical and psychological injuries. Everyone must be able to speak freely and express their desires and limits. In this process, establishing a safe word is essential.
BDSM practice for beginners
For those new to BDSM , it's important to start with good practices. It's therefore important to begin simply, especially with bondage. It's best to avoid practices you're not familiar with.
The equipment is also of paramount importance and must be carefully chosen for safe bondage practice.
Finally, a beginner in bondage and BDSM would be well advised to learn about anatomy in order to have all the necessary knowledge for safe practice.
Taking beginner bondage classes
introductory courses for beginners in BDSM and bondage, allowing them to train with experienced individuals who have mastered all the technical aspects.
Shibari tutorials are also available online.