Private Shibari sessions
I tie up and dominate people who enjoy the idea of handing control over to me for a moment.
For them, I create a safe space where they can explore a facet of themselves, without judgment.
Here are the 3 types of sessions I offer
- Introductory Session: Gently discover the restraint of rope bondage. No BDSM or erotic play; the power exchange is very moderate.
This session is for you if you are exploring your desires, if you don't wish to delve too deeply into eroticism and pain, or if you prefer a photoshoot rather than an immersive session.
Details: 1 hour / €250 - IKU Session: The erotic facet of restraint. A shibari session enriched with cerebral and sensual games. The goal is to amplify pleasure, discomfort, and arousal (eye contact, power exchange, whispered words, etc.). The spirit of Kinbaku in its most intense form.
This session is for you if the idea of vulnerability appeals to you and if you embrace your fantasies surrounding eroticized restraint.
Details: 1.5 hours / €350 - ITAI Session: With or without ropes, discover the pleasures of BDSM play (from light to intense, depending on your preferences). The focus is on the eroticization of pain.
This session is for you if you are exploring or comfortable with your pleasure/pain relationship.
Pricing: 1 hour/€250 or 1.5 hours/€350
It's not the duration that validates the experience, but the intensity felt. The time spent on the ropes is approximately 35 to 45 minutes. It should be noted that 20 minutes are dedicated to welcoming and closing the session.
My approach
Whatever your choice and experience, I take the time to work
properly. This means that a session has a certain rhythm (waiting, slowness, observation, etc.). In this way, your emotions can emerge. You become aware of your emotions. A silent dialogue can develop between us.
It is necessary for me to have the time to understand the mechanics of your body. It is essential that you fully experience the present moment and that a bond of mutual trust is established.
The process of a private session with me
- Each session begins with a social time. This is a moment to arrive, disconnect from daily life, and have a cup of tea. It allows for discussion about current mental and physical state, desires, limits, and a focus on safety (approximately 10 minutes).
- The first session: We get to know each other. My role is to guide you in exploring a facet of yourself. This is done with respect for your body and what I sense from you on the day. There are no stakes.
- The following sessions: The "safety and practices" briefing takes less time, allowing us to move more quickly onto the mats. The bond of trust is stronger. The playing field can be expanded.
Suspension is not an end in itself. It is never guaranteed. Shibari is much more than a merry-go-round. - We always take time at the end of the session to debrief on your feelings and bring you back to reality (10 min)
- A set of 5 to 8 retouched photos is included in the session price. You can use them as you wish. I do not publish any photos.
- Attire: your choice of clothing, and
ideally without underwire for shibari: blouse and underwear, skirt, button-front dress…
not recommended: tight-fitting sportswear, loose clothing, jewelry, recent tattoos… )
My values
I know that the price of a session is significant. What matters is the value (quality) of the experience you are giving yourself.
The goal is not to come and consume BDSM (being detached from your partner and only focused on the actions) but to experience it in its relational dimension with me.
You chose me over someone else. Your choice is based on my technical skills, but also on my approach, my energy, my style. The question of desire (not in a carnal sense) is central; you must want to share this intimate experience with me, and vice versa.
The richness of the experience stems from your involvement and ability to fully experience this moment, balancing letting go with mindfulness.
The interludes surrounding this moment (preliminary discussions, welcome, debriefing) contribute to its magic. These interludes should be as fully engaged as the session itself.
The experience I offer
The session is certainly a space for exploration (of oneself, of practices) but also of the other (me). Trust, interactivity, and complicity are the foundations of a successful session.
More than the cost of a session, it is its quality that matters to me. This is why I take the time to choose the people I work with. It is essential that I am certain we can agree on the mindset and the possible activities.
A session is also an opportunity for self-exploration. To learn to name your desires and define your boundaries. To dare to take time dedicated to your own pleasure. To receive without having to reciprocate, except through active presence. To connect with your sensations. To make room for your emotions. But also to debrief. To express what is experienced and felt. To understand your body differently. To see yourself through the eyes of another. To perform. To experience letting go. To be fully aware of yourself and the moment…
